Dating rules for a successful relationship
But as the bouncer lifts the rope and chooses her and her friends before all the others, her excitement and ego both skyrocket.
"I love nightclubs already" she thinks to herself, as she looks over her shoulder and sees the other girls outside in the cold, watching with jealously as she walks through the door.
At most, it is a reliable source of advice for women who want to improve their chances with the opposite sex.
Two women step out of their front doors on a Friday night in New York City.
It is the middle of winter and a light snow is just starting to fall.
Both women are dressed up and heading out to meet with their respective friends for some drinks. Both are single and want little more than to ultimately find true love.
However, in the past two years she's really started to see trends and mistakes in her dating history, and she encountered a few ideas in books and online, and these have really changed her outlook. While she knows Manhattan is a horrible place for a single girl to live, she hasn't lost hope yet.
As the 23-year-old gets out of her cab in front of the nightclub where she'll meet her friends, the sharp cold bites at her face.
In fact, she'd met one of the girls she was with tonight that way.
She feels sorry for the few girls who were clearly older than the others - probably over 30; they definitely aren't getting in.
The 32-year-old meets her two girlfriends at an upscale lounge that they've come to like, mostly because it is never too loud and has a good layout, conducive to meeting new people.
If she is honest with herself, she sort of expects to meet a guy in New York, though she definitely isn't ready to get married.
She has a career and other aspirations to meet before she is ready to settle down.